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Soul Care Intensives

Maybe you’ve had this experience – the weekly spiritual direction, counseling, or pastoral care appointments are good, but aren’t enough. You sense that deeper work is needed. You’re just not sure where to go or what that looks like.

 

We’d like to discern with you whether or not a Soul Care Intensive is right for you. 

Soul-centered work begins with the conviction that healing never happens in the mind alone. We are nephesh—an ancient Hebrew word meaning the whole, breathing, embodied self. In this approach, we honor both psyche (your inner life, story, longings, and wounds) and soma (your body’s wisdom, sensations, patterns, and protective strategies).

Rather than treating symptoms in isolation, soul-centered care invites you to slow down, listen deeply, and notice the ways your body and soul are speaking together. Through attuned presence, gentle somatic practices, and thoughtful exploration of your story, we create space for integration—where your emotions, memories, beliefs, and nervous system responses can find coherence and rest.

This work is not merely about fixing problems; it is about tending the whole person. It is about rediscovering aliveness, reinhabiting your body with compassion, and reconnecting with the deeper currents of meaning that have always been present beneath the surface of your life.

(FOR SMALL GROUP INTENSIVES, SEE THE ABOUT PAGE)

  • CHUCK DEGROAT, PhD, LPC

    I’m a follower of Jesus, a husband to Sara for 30 years, and father to two amazing daughters. I serve as Professor of Counseling and Christian Spirituality and Executive Director of the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at Western Theological Seminary Holland MI. I’m also a faculty member for the Soul Care Institute.

    I’m a licensed therapist, a spiritual director, author of six books, and retreat leader/speaker. As a therapist, I’ve specialized in pastoral (and leadership) health, abuse and trauma, and navigating spiritual and emotional obstacles on the faith journey. I work not just with pastors, but with anyone longing for flourishing and wholeness in their lives.

    I’m a Minister of Word and Sacrament in the Reformed Church in America. I pastored in Orlando and San Francisco before transitioning to training and forming pastors. I have 20+ years experience in training clergy in issues of abuse and trauma, conducting pastor and planter assessments, and facilitating church consultations and inquiries of abuse among pastors and within congregations.

    You can learn more about my books at the link above. My newest book is coming in early October and available for pre-order now. It’s called Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself and to God When You’re Weary, Wounded, and Wandering.

  • RACHEL BLACKSTON, LMHC

    Rachel considers the counseling room a sacred space where deep heart change occurs. She specializes in working with women with a history of trauma and abuse as well as those struggling with infertility and sexual betrayal. Rachel is trained in EMDR, an evidenced-based therapy in the treatment of trauma. She is also a Florida Qualified Supervisor for registered mental health counseling interns.

    Outside of the counseling room, Rachel serves as an Adjunct Faculty member at Reformed Theological Seminary and writes regularly for the blog Red Tent Living. She speaks frequently on topics around story, attachment styles in marriage, and the Enneagram. Rachel’s deepest joy is being with her husband and their three daughters, who are priceless gifts after several years of infertility. Rachel loves connecting with friends over a cup of dark roast, beating her husband in miniature golf, and exploring the beauty of the North Carolina mountains.

    Here’s a sampling of some of Rachel’s writings:

    https://redtentliving.com/2018/08/15/the-civil-wars/

    https://redtentliving.com/2024/07/09/yes-and/

    https://redtentliving.com/2023/11/07/all-parts-welcome/

    https://redtentliving.com/2023/05/10/wild-love/

    https://redtentliving.com/2022/12/26/eucatastrophe/

  • MICHAEL BLACKSTON, LMHC

    Michael is a trauma-informed therapist who helps individuals heal from early attachment wounds, navigate the complexities of present-day relationships, and move toward deeper emotional and spiritual wholeness. His work is grounded in the belief that healing happens within the context of safe, attuned relationships—and that our stories of harm can become pathways to restoration.

    Drawing from attachment theory, neuroscience, and spiritually integrated practices, Michael specializes in working with adults impacted by childhood trauma, burdened by unwanted addictions, and shaped by persistent, maladaptive patterns in thinking, feeling, and behavior. These unresolved experiences often disrupt their ability to feel safe, connected, and fully present—in both their relationships and their everyday lives. He creates a compassionate space where clients can explore their stories, reconnect with their true selves, and discover deeper courage and purpose.

    Michael is trained in EMDR and has completed a trauma-focused narrative therapy certificate under Dr. Dan Allender. A graduate of Reformed Theological Seminary with 20 years of clinical experience, he brings a thoughtful presence to the counseling room, offering both practical tools and a sacred space for growth.

    He and his wife, Rachel, are the co-founders of Redeemer Counseling, a multi-site counseling practice serving communities throughout Central Florida.

  • KAT WILKINS, LMHC

    Kat is an Orlando-based therapist who helps adults healing from trauma gain clarity and compassion about their stories of harm so they can experience safety, connection, and genuine healing.

    She holds a deep conviction that what happened to you does not mean you’re broken—there is real goodness in you. No matter the story or the series of stories that led you to seek support, Kat believes you are not a problem to be solved but a person to be loved. Your pain is not a dead end; it is a pathway toward healing.

    At the core of Kat’s therapeutic approach is the belief that the body is wise and inherently oriented toward healing. Over years of sitting with clients, she has become increasingly convinced of the goodness of our bodies and the protective strategies they develop. Symptoms often labeled as “the problem”—depression, anger, panic attacks, addictive patterns, inertia, helplessness, or shutdown—are, in her view, the body’s best attempts to keep us safe. Kat’s work honors these strategies with compassion while helping clients form new pathways of safety, regulation, and connection. In sessions with Kat, clients can expect a personalized, collaborative, and deeply compassionate space grounded in evidence-based practices and shaped by respect for each person’s values, beliefs, and goals.

    Her integrative approach draws from EMDR, Bowen Family Systems Theory, Ego State Therapy, and Polyvagal Theory. Kat is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (FL), Licensed Professional Counselor (MO), and Qualified Supervisor for LMHCs in Florida. She holds a Master of Arts in Counseling and is EMDR-trained.

  • RYAN KUJA, LPC

    Ryan is a trauma specialist whose work is shaped by both extensive clinical training and his own lived experience with complex trauma, PTSD, depression, OCD, anxiety disorders, and profound seasons of spiritual darkness.

    For more than 25 years—since a formative mystical experience at age 17—he has explored the deep intersections of mental health, neurobiology, spirituality, and trauma, a journey that has initiated him into the vocation of a wounded healer. Ryan offers integrative therapy, coaching, trauma intensives, and retreats, guiding clients in regulating their nervous systems, completing incomplete neurophysiological responses, metabolizing emotions, and reintegrating parts of the self that were overwhelmed or exiled. His approach helps clients begin restorying their lives and reclaiming their sacred purpose in the world.

    Clients often describe Ryan as “not your average therapist.” His commitment to doing his own inner work, paired with a deeply compassionate presence, creates a therapeutic space that is both grounded and transformative. He believes that effective therapy requires not only a clear map—sound theory, research, and evidence-based methods—but also a guide who truly knows the terrain. Ryan brings both: a seasoned understanding of the clinical landscape and hard-won wisdom from his own healing journey. His work draws from somatic therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Polyvagal Theory, attachment science, interpersonal neurobiology, depth psychology, relational psychodynamics, and spiritual formation. Ryan holds an MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, an MA in Theology & Culture, a Post-Graduate Diploma in Humanitarian Assistance, a certificate in Spiritual Direction, a certificate in Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, and advanced training in a wide range of trauma-informed modalities. He is also an adjunct professor of counseling at Western Theological Seminary.

    Before becoming a therapist, Ryan spent years in international relief and development, living in fifteen cities across five continents. He now lives in Holland, MI with his wife and their young triplets, and spends his free time surfing, sailing, paddleboarding, and skiing.

  • Others On The Team

    Tuck and Stacy Bartholomew - Tuck is the Canon for Mission and Ministry in the ACNA’s Diocese of the Mid-Atlantic. Tuck serves as Chief of Staff, and provides leadership and oversight of church planting, mission; and collaborates in areas of ordination, leadership development, clergy and congregational care. Stacy is a spiritual director. Together, they planted City Church Philadelphia. Tuck and Stacy are equipped to provide pastoral counseling and care for clergy, in particular, navigating seasons of sabbatical, grief, transition, and more. They are equipped with resources such as IFS, the Enneagram, family systems, and more. They live in Charlottesville.

    Elizabeth Pennock - Elizabeth is a Holland, MI based trauma and EMDR trained therapist providing a range of intensive options. She is a colleague of Chuck, and is program director of the Western Theological Seminary counseling program.

    Fritz Schalmo - Fritz is a veteran pastor and therapist providing a wide range of pastoral and therapeutic care, particularly for pastors experiencing weariness, burnout, grief, or transition.

  • We call this work “soul care” in the ancient Christian sense—an attentive tending of the whole person, where rest and restoration embrace both soma and psyche. This is a relational, trauma-informed approach that honors your body’s wisdom and your soul’s longings. We draw from the best of contemporary therapeutic insight, yet we move at the pace of soul—unhurried, spacious, and deeply attuned. Within the setting of a five-day retreat, we create room for your nervous system to settle, your story to be held with compassion, and your inner life to come gently back into coherence and wholeness.

    Intensives are offered in Holland MI or Orlando FL, or where our other practitioners are based. We do some virtually, as well. We often book these weeks or months in advance, and availability is limited. Contact us to learn more.

    Intensive work is a proven, transformational process. Focused, intentional engagement over five days can bring about significant change that months or even years of spiritual direction, pastoral care, or therapy doesn’t accomplish.

    We do this work for individuals and for married couples. Pricing is the same for each.

  • We create a 5-day experience together that engages the rhythms of challenging inner work, significant rest for your soul, and enjoyable, rejuvenating activities.

    It begins with your intention to take this time, set it apart, and commit to the rhythms of deep inner work, rest, reading, play, creativity, or whatever else your soul needs.

    Individuals/couples find a quiet place to stay for this time apart from home and normal rhythms. Recommendations of places to stay are offered.

    Intensives are 3 hours a day over 5 days. Consult with the therapist to inquire about start times and dates.

    With each day, the inner work builds, but we find a good rhythm of soul work, rest and play along the way for you. On our last day, we collaborate on a plan for your further work and care, and we provide you with resources to engage beyond our work together. In some cases, we engage in periodic follow-up appointments.

  • Soul Care was called “the art of arts” by early Christians who engaged matters of the heart with depth and sensitivity.

    The pursuit of self-knowledge was key to unlocking the sufferings and disorders of the heart.

    Today, we have the opportunity to connect the wisdom and practices of ancient soul care to new insights in psychology and neuroscience which engage relationships, story, and trauma deeply, all for the sake of your healing journey.

    Soul care isn’t merely psychotherapy (which is often too enslaved to insurance companies and tends to pathologize people) nor is it a substitute word for biblical counseling (which tends to shun contemporary psychological wisdom and best practices). No, soul care offers a new paradigm for your healing anchored in both ancient wisdom and contemporary science.

    Soul care makes relationship central. It takes your story seriously. It treats trauma deeply.

    Ancient wisdom.

    Contemporary insights.

    All for your journey to wholeheartedness.

  • The focus of the intensive is discerned based on your specific needs. Here are some possibilities:

    The 5 day ministry leader sabbatical reboot - An assessment and exploration of personal, relational, and vocational satisfaction, with a special attunement to the particular season of your developmental and spiritual journey, and the significant tasks for growth now and into the future.

    The 5 day marital reconnect - A couple’s intensive designed for retreat and reconnection.

    The 5 day “Healing What’s Within” Intensive - a deep, therapeutic exploration of your inner world with special attunement to your trauma and healing journey.

    The 5 day spiritual abuse assessment and recovery - A thorough assessment of your experience of spiritual abuse and its impact on you, with an eye both toward addressing your own trauma and charting a course for any relational or vocational intersections that need to be engaged.

    The 5 day leader impact assessment - If you’re a leader who has harmed others and wants to begin the healing journey personally and relationally, here you can take a deep dive into your understanding of yourself and how others experience you.

    People often ask: "What if I want a mix of 2-3 of these?" It's often the case that some of this work is combined. We'll help discern what's best for you.

  • Chuck, Ryan, and Elizabeth’s intensives are offered either via Zoom or at their Holland MI offices. Holland is a destination small city with lovely hotels, Air B&B’s, and unique dining experiences, consistently ranked highly as a top beach town. It’s shopping district is the best small town experience in the region. (NOTE: Priority may be given to virtual, Zoom intensives December - March due to Michigan weather and its impact on travel).

    Rachel, Michael, and Kat offer intensives in Central Florida, where clients often stay at a lovely lake house just a short walk from the office, or in a variety of unique locations. They provide other lovely recommendations, as well.

    This intensive location is less than an hour from beautiful ocean beaches, and within minutes of lovely walking trails, restaurants, and other amenities.

  • A 5-day intensive is $5500, whether in person or over Zoom. The cost is the same for individual and couple’s intensives.

    There is a 10% discount for those in ministry.

    Most ministry leaders find that some or all of the cost is covered by their churches and organizations.

    You are responsible for travel and lodging.

    We invoice you for one-half of your payment to lock in your dates, and one-half when the intensive ends.

    All payments are invoiced by Chuck DeGroat PC.

  • To be considered for an intensive, email us confidentially at chuckdegroatsoulcare@gmail.com with:

    • Preference of who you’d prefer to work with. Availability differs. See bio’s for more information. We will also discern with you who might be a good fit.

    • Name, Spouse’s Name (if applicable), Date of Birth

    • Location and Vocation

    • A detailed, 1-2 page description of what you believe you need

    • A brief summary of past (or present) care (therapy, spiritual direction, etc.) and its effectiveness.

    • A short window into your story and why this kind of care would be helpful now.

    • Your desired outcome (what would flourishing look like for you…or for your marriage?)

    • 4-6 dates of weeks during the year that could work for your intensive. (Please note that we often book intensives months out, though we do sometimes have more immediate availability.)

    • Do you recommend things to do or resources to read beforehand? Often, this is dependent on what you need. Please do ask if you’d like to engage resources in advance.

    • Can I do this via Zoom? Yes, Chuck did all intensives via Zoom during Covid-19, and we do several a year still. We do ask that you find a quiet, retreat-like space with good WiFi wherever you’ll be. (NOTE: For Michigan intensives, priority is sometimes given to virtual, Zoom intensives December - March due to Michigan weather and its impact on travel).

    • Is the deposit refundable? Because most of these are scheduled well in advance, we do not refund intensive deposits if they are cancelled within 60 days of the first day of the scheduled intensive.

    • Is it the same price for all therapists? Yes. We are all veteran therapists with advanced trauma training and exceptional experience and credentials.

    • Is it the same price for individuals or couples? Yes.

    • Do you do longer or shorter intensives? Yes, we do intensives, on occasion, as short as 3 days/3 hours day ($3300) and as long as 7 days/3 hours a day ($7700), after assessing what you need.

Your story is sacred.
The work is significant.
Deep change is possible.